Bridesmaids Questionnaire

After the wedding gown, bridesmaids are the most important clothing choice you'll make for your big day. I suggest taking some time to think things over before you go out shopping, and if you have a large party don't take everyone shopping the first time out. Take one or two bridesmaids with different body types to help you explore the options. Here are some things to ask yourself before and during shopping:

1)Do you prefer to have all your bridesmaids in the same style, or do you prefer the look of different dresses? This is one of the first things you'll want to decide as it will dramatically impact your shopping process. If you want different styles, you'll need to find a line that has a variety of styles that you like in the same color and fabric.

2)How much are you and your maids willing to spend on the dresses? Discuss price range before you start shopping, so that if there are any issues you know and can work out a plan (Example: One bridesmaid can't afford the full price of a dress until she gets her Xmas bonus, you agree to cover the difference for now and she'll pay you back later.)

3)What colors would work well with both the look of your wedding and the various skin tones in your wedding party? Having a color or colors in mind is a good idea, but having a very specific color in mind could drastically limit your choices. Color availability varies by designer, and by fabric within designer, so some dresses will have a lot of options, and other will be more limited.

4) How will the dresses look next to your dress? Do you want them to have a similar look and style, or do you want them to contrast with your dress?

5) What are the things you care most about having in a bridesmaids dress, and what are you flexible on? Make a list of what the top priorities are, and stick to it. It will help you narrow down your options, and make the whole process go more smoothly.

6) Who is the bride? This isn't a trick question- it's one I often want to ask when I hear outspoken friends, mothers, sisters, etc trying to tell brides what they should do or what would be best. At the end of the day, you are the bride, and while you should consider the thoughts and feelings of your bridesmaids, you have the final say.